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Mar
2

Can you predict your child's future?

Posted by Penny Alexander
Penny Alexander
Once a drama and media teacher, now a freelance writer and mum, Penny Alexander
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Do you look at your babies or children and get inkilings of what they might be?

How early can you predict what they might be in the future? At birth, one year old, two, three, thirteen, twenty one?  Personalities, temperament, interests and preferences can appear very early.

One of my favourite reads as a parent is the family supplement in The Guardian Weekend on a Saturday.  Many of the articles are like extended blog posts, packed full of the stories of real family life. Last weekend I read it at our local arts centre while my daughter did her Drama lesson and one article profiling Matt Damon's family really got me thinking.

His mother, an early year's professor, felt she knew her son would be an actor, and his brother an artist, from when they were very young, based on how they liked to play. Her predictions came true. As an early years professor, and with hindsight, it's perhaps easy to predict, or to feel you have predicted something. But there was something in it. I laughed at the image of a two year old Matt Damon refusing to leave the dressing up area at play school and I applauded his mum for telling the staff not to worry and to just let him be. While I try and give my children a fully rounded play experience, they both have very different ideas about what they enjoy.  As they grow I can see more and more natural preferences emerging. Property management, chef, office worker, pianist, artist, astronaut all look like favourable options...

 

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17
Feb
4

Does co-sleep mean no sleep?

Posted by Julie Long
Julie Long
Mum of five, founder of Lazy Daisy and now MD of The Lazy Daisy Chain! Busy mum
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Your 2 year old still sleeps with you ..... are you mad?

 

When I tell my friends my 2 year old still sleeps with me, they roll their eyes!  Comments like ‘isn’t he in a bed yet’, ‘how the heck do you cope with that’, ‘how are you ever having a relationship’ are common and yet for me sleeping with Master M. feels totally normal.

I am not what you would call a continuum concept mum.  Don't get me wrong, I so admire those who can have baby attached to them 24hrs a day, with baby on board in sling, and who fly in the face of us buggy pushers.  Whilst I will freely admit I am no where close to going as far as many attachment parents, I do love cuddles and felt really strongly about wanting my baby with me at night.

I guess I am proof that co-sleeping isn't exclusively attached to some kind of  'eco parenting style' like many people still believe it to be.  I didn't breast feed (those of you who have read my bio will know why), I used a sling but not all the time.  Surely therefore I can’t possibly be a fan of co-sleeping can I ……?

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